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#4Blog2Me - ...about love
23. April 2022

Throw your heart ahead and your horse will follow.
"Love is a strange game. It comes and goes from one to another. It takes everything from us, but it also gives far too much." Connie Francis

Oh yes!
Love really is strange. You have absolutely no influence on when and with whom it catches you and connects you.
Not even hiding or isolating yourself helps! Yes, not even DISTRACTION or reason can compete with it.
It's actually a mess, to say the least!
Or is it? ;-)




Julia Schütze, Moderatorin, Journalistin, Podcasterin, St. Pölten, Österreich

What is love anyway?

It is definitely not tangible. Otherwise we could push it away very easily because... we don't have the time, we don't want to, we're afraid of it...

"No, no," a friend recently said to me. "You have time for it. You want it too ;-) - and you're definitely not afraid of love.
You are afraid of the unknown. Of POSSIBLE pain."

Wow, that hit the spot!- but it's actually OK, right?

Yes, actually. But then again, not really? ;-)
Life is love. And not functioning, if I'm honest with myself.

The birth of my daughter is the best proof of this.
She is the best thing that has ever "happened" to me. With all the ups and downs: school, for example, was never really her thing:
When I woke her up on the second day of school in the morning, she looked at me with big eyes and said dryly:
"I have to go there again?!"
Me: "Yes, yesterday was your first day of school."
She: "I thought that meant ONE school day."

We - I say this deliberately - we mastered their school years.
And now that she is studying what makes sense for her ;-), everything is going smoothly and I know she is on her way. She is on track!
And she knows that whenever she needs me, I am there for her: to laugh as well as to cry, and we ALWAYS find a solution.

This is love.

The love for his child.
“A child’s first steps are into your heart,” as the saying goes.

And that's probably why she's always checked when I'm having a hard time.
The fact that I started riding again is due in no small part to her encouragement, and she is right:
Whenever I come home from the horse, my heart feels light.

Because it is love.
Love is not demanding.
Love is not one-sided.
Love is harmony. Harmony of need and feeling.

Not that these words are bringing a tear to my cheek right now.
 - Yes, it does. ;-) 

And why?

Because it feels so good!

Little Larksi, this gelding has the wall around my heart that I built with incredible strength
and have guarded and defended at all costs over the past decade,
to crumble and thus made it into my heart.
Completely unexpected.

Yet again.
Like 21 years ago, when I was surprised with "Congratulations, you're pregnant."

I now believe that LOVE is a kind of learning task, the level of difficulty of which we as earthlings have no influence over.
The pain or "the anger is a signal to change something",
as Thomas W. Albrecht says in podcast interview #134
(The special power of mindful language).

In elementary school, at best, we were given a star under the task.
In love, at best, we are rewarded with love, the most powerful energy in this world.
An energy across space and time.
Source of strength and spiritual salvation in one.

Love does not speak from the mind. It speaks from the heart.
So now I'm continuing to practice (carefully) and am looking forward to the REWARD...

... in the stable in wisdom:
"Throw your heart ahead and your horse will follow."
CLICK All the man that I need! Whitney Houston


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